Primary Physical Custody in Texas: What It Means for Your Family
It’s hard to prepare yourself for the emotional toll that family-related disputes can bring. We’ve seen how parents wrestle with worry over their child’s daily routine and future well-being, especially when it comes to deciding where the child will primarily live.
At Jackman Law Firm, we’ve been guiding families through Texas family law matters since 2014. Today, we want to share why “primary physical custody” matters and how it shapes your rights, responsibilities, and bond with your child.
Custody vs. Conservatorship: An Overview
Before we go further, it helps to distinguish between the ordinary meaning of “custody” and the legal concept known as “conservatorship.” In Texas, the term “custody” isn’t officially used in the Family Code. Instead, state law talks about “conservatorship,” which generally splits into two main parts: the right to make decisions for a child and possession or access to the child.
These two parts can be given jointly to both parents or allocated in separate ways, depending on what a judge deems best for the child’s overall welfare. Decision-making authority can involve matters such as health care, education, and religious upbringing. By contrast, “possession” addresses the schedule of when and how each parent will spend time with the child.
Defining the Primary Residence: What “Primary Physical Custody” Signifies
Although the Texas Family Code does not use the term “primary physical custody,” many parents and custody attorneys rely on that phrase to describe the parent who gets to choose the child’s main residence. This right often goes hand-in-hand with overseeing major aspects of the child’s life, such as where the child enrolls in school or which city they live in.
When you hold “primary physical custody,” you generally guide or influence the child’s day-to-day routine, including their neighborhood, the friends they spend time with, and the local health care providers they visit. Meanwhile, the other parent has the opportunity to maintain a healthy bond with the child through a possession schedule. The idea behind this setup is that the child receives stability in one home base while still preserving a meaningful relationship with both parents.
Joint Managing Conservatorship: Shared Rights and Responsibilities
Texas courts start with the presumption that parents should share duties and help shape important decisions for their child. This arrangement is called Joint Managing Conservatorship (JMC). Both parents are seen as equally important in the child’s life, so they’re typically encouraged to work together on major concerns like where the child goes to school or how to handle major medical procedures.
As much as these rights are meant to be shared, one parent is usually granted the exclusive authority to pick where the child’s primary residence will be. In certain instances, parents may waive having a single “primary” parent and choose to limit the child’s residence to a specific county or school district. Even under JMC, differences can arise as to how responsibilities are divided, but courts remain focused on ensuring each parent stays involved in the child’s upbringing.
The Standard Possession Order (SPO) and Expanded Standard Possession Order (ESPO)
Whenever parents can’t reach their own agreement, Texas statutes provide default outlines, one of which is called the Standard Possession Order (SPO). This schedule addresses when the non-primary parent will spend weekends, holidays, and summers with the child. For instance, the typical SPO includes the first, third, and fifth weekends of each month, alternating holidays, and blocks of time over the summer.
If both parents live near each other, the Expanded Standard Possession Order (ESPO) might apply. The ESPO allows the non-primary parent to start visits earlier or end them later, giving more total hours with the child. To clarify how the two schedules compare, take a look at the table below.
Aspect | Standard Possession Order (SPO) | Expanded Standard Possession Order (ESPO) |
Weekend Start/End | Friday 6:00 p.m. – Sunday 6:00 p.m. | Starts when school dismisses Friday, ends when school resumes Monday |
Thursday Visitation | Thursday 6:00 p.m. – 8:00 p.m. | Starts when school dismisses on Thursday, continues until school resumes on Friday |
Distance Requirement | Typically used within 100 miles or more, with variations allowed | Applies mainly if the non-primary parent resides within 50 miles of the child |
Additional School Holidays | Ends at 6:00 p.m. on Monday if certain holidays fall after the weekend | May continue until Tuesday morning, adding extra overnight time |
Regardless of which plan is in force, the central aim is to maintain reliable deadlines while letting the child and both parents adapt to a consistent schedule. Families can also negotiate creative or customized schedules if particular circumstances call for it.
Rights and Duties of the Primary Conservator
The parent who is granted the power to designate the child’s main residence, often called the “primary conservator,” usually has a handful of specific rights, including:
- The ability to pick where the child lives (subject to any geographic limits in the court order)
- The authority to receive child support payments
- The right to make educational decisions for the child
- The power to consent to standard and urgent medical care
Even though the primary conservator holds these particular rights, the other parent retains important freedoms and an active role. Both parents may hold shared duties in areas like attending school events, participating in doctor visits, and caring for the child on weekends, holidays, or other times specified in a possession order.
Factors Considered When Determining the Child’s Best Interest
A Texas court will always look at what it believes best serves the child in terms of safety, health, and general well-being. Important factors include:
- The child’s preferences, if they’re mature enough to voice them
- The child’s emotional and physical needs now and in the near future
- The parenting abilities displayed by each parent
- The stability each parent can provide in terms of home life and support
- Any evidence of violence, abuse, or neglect
Judges may also consider the parents’ willingness to cooperate with each other because a cooperative and respectful co-parenting environment often eases a child’s transition between households. The court’s goal is to encourage a plan where the child can flourish.
Modifying Custody and Possession Orders
A custody or possession order can be changed if there’s a genuine shift in a parent’s living situation, job demands, or the child’s day-to-day needs. In that scenario, you can file a petition to modify the order, showing the reasons why the existing one no longer fits the child’s routine or best interest.
Examples of reasons that may justify a modification include a long-distance move, sudden unemployment, or major health changes in the child or a parent. The court evaluates whether the changes are genuine enough and whether a modification would better serve the child’s future experiences.
Contact Jackman Law Firm for Assistance with Your Family Law Case
If you find yourself in a dispute about primary physical custody or if you’re just trying to make clear decisions that support your child, we’re here to help. Since 2014, Jackman Law Firm has worked toward arrangements that promote fairness and keep both parents involved. We believe that each parent deserves a fair shot at maintaining meaningful time with their children while building a strong foundation for the child’s growth.
Feel free to call us today at 844-303-0001 or visit our Contact Us page to schedule a consultation. We’re committed to protecting your rights, smoothing out legal hurdles, and helping you move forward with confidence in your child custody plans.
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Article by
Chris Jackman